Line me up that dopamineBy @ryantmcknight | Posted: July 24, 2017
Click. Dopamine release. Swipe. Dopamine release.
“People are carrying around a portable dopamine pump,” says David Greenfield, assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at the University of Connecticut School of Medicine and founder of The Center for Internet and Technology Addiction.
Maybe you recognize there is a problem and try to do something about it.
You sign off one site. You delete one app. Now where do you deposit your saved time? Probably somewhere else online. This has become normal life for most of us. We are caught in webs designed to keep us there.
I should know. For the last five years, I've been building these nets. I've been pushing dopamine. As a digital designer, it's my job to ensure web and app users enjoy their experiences.
I also know that each of us – as a user – has a choice to make.
Paul Graham explains it as picking between two approaches to living a “normal” life.
As the world becomes more addictive, the two senses in which one can live a normal life will be driven ever further apart. One sense of "normal" is statistically normal: what everyone else does. The other is the sense we mean when we talk about the normal operating range of a piece of machinery: what works best. These two senses are already quite far apart. Already someone trying to live well would seem eccentrically abstemious in most of the US. That phenomenon is only going to become more pronounced. You can probably take it as a rule of thumb from now on that if people don't think you're weird, you're living badly.
– Paul Graham, “The Acceleration of Addictiveness” 2010
Graham's overall argument is that a life well-lived is one devoid of digital addiction. You are obviously free to disagree – we are each entitled to our own beliefs about what the “good life” looks like – but why would you?
Think about what lies down the path of digital addiction.
Louis C.K. describes it well – “You never feel completely sad or completely happy, you just feel … kinda satisfied with your products. And then you die.”
Avoiding this addiction doesn't require you to avoid all technology. It doesn't require you to rail against the modern world and its growing number of conveniences.
It simply means that you recognize technology's double-edged nature and retain the healthy ability to say no sometimes – to keep your phone in your pocket and your eyes off a screen.
Few of us want these technologies banned or regulated by ham-fisted government officials. These tools connect us to each other and make life more enjoyable. We live in a tremendous age of technological advancement but as Sophocles said over 2,000 years ago, “nothing vast enters the lives of mortals without a curse.” The Internet is indeed something vast. Now it’s up to us to figure out how to deal with the downsides of these technologies while enjoying their benefits.
Nir Eyal, in response to “User Behavior” 2015
Which normal life will you choose?